Why the MAHA Report Misses the Mark — and What Families Actually Need to Heal

​A Family WellthCare Perspective on Making America Healthy Again

The MAHA Commission’s report highlights a real childhood health crisis — but its solutions fall short. Here’s why real healing starts with relational repair, not regulatory control.

Introduction: A Report That Got My Attention — But Not My Agreement

When I first opened the MAHA Commission’s new report, Making Our Children Healthy Again, I found myself nodding. Finally, I thought. Someone’s naming the truth: childhood chronic illness is out of control. Obesity, anxiety, attention issues, autoimmunity — the trends are undeniable. The report speaks to it all: ultra-processed foods, environmental chemicals, social media overload, overprescription.

But as I read deeper, my agreement gave way to something else.

Frustration. Disappointment. A quiet grief.

Because once again, a well-funded government commission is asking all the right what questions… while completely missing the how.

The Data Is Real. But the Frame Is All Wrong.

The MAHA Report is packed with solid research. It paints a sobering picture: 40% of American children have a chronic illness. One in four teenage girls experienced a major depressive episode last year. Suicide is now a leading cause of death for teens.

These numbers are heartbreaking. They should stir us to action.

But what’s missing is this: children don’t get sick in a vacuum.

They are embedded in relational systems. They metabolize stress through nervous systems shaped by how we show up as adults. And yet this report, like so many before it, treats children like isolated inputs in a dysfunctional machine.

Fix the food. Fix the chemicals. Fix the screen time.

But what about fixing the rupture in relationship?

Our Kids Aren’t Just Overfed and Under-exercised — They’re Undernourished in Connection

I’ve spent the past 20 years coaching families — especially parents — through addiction, mental health crises, and what I call emotional injuries. I’ve watched mothers carry unbearable loads. I’ve seen fathers struggle to express love through the weight of their own shame. I’ve sat with families torn apart by grief, fear, or silence.

And I can tell you this:
🧠 The greatest toxin in a child’s life is not sugar, not plastics, not social media.
It’s emotional disconnection.

• A parent too burnt out to notice the early signs.
• A home where conflict is suppressed, not repaired.
• A culture that treats trauma as pathology instead of a call for compassion.
  
  

When we talk about chronic illness, we must also talk about the chronic absence of attuned parenting, secure attachment, and emotional skill-building.

Overmedicated, Overmanaged, and Overlooked

The MAHA report rightly calls out the overmedicalization of children: ADHD meds, antidepressants, unnecessary antibiotics. It’s true — many of our kids are being medicated for symptoms of distress that are rooted in relational rupture.

But what the report doesn’t ask is: What happens when a child’s pain is constantly framed as an individual malfunction?

What happens when we see kids as broken instead of mirrors?

The truth is, children often carry what families have been unwilling or unable to feel. Their behavior reflects our system’s emotional wealth — or lack of it. And until we treat the system, no intervention will ever be enough.

So What Do We Do? We Stop Fixing Children. We Start Healing Families.

This is where Family WellthCare Coaching comes in.
Not as another program, but as a paradigm shift.
We don’t treat children as patients. We treat families as living ecosystems.

We focus on:
🧭 Relational Wealth
Teaching families to build emotional capital — the currency of connection, trust, and shared resilience.

🔄 Evaluation & Adaptation
Helping parents reflect, recalibrate, and realign — not from guilt, but from growth.

🛠️ Skill Building, Not Blame
Coaching parents to regulate their own nervous systems, so they can co-regulate their children’s.

🧠 Long-Term Resilience Over Short-Term Compliance
Shifting from punishment and praise to presence and repair.
This isn’t soft. This is strong. This is how we raise future leaders — not just compliant kids.

A New Commission. A Different Strategy.

The MAHA Commission wants to make children healthy again. I don’t question the intent. But I do question the method. We don’t need more federal oversight. We need more familial insight.

So today, I’m proposing a new initiative:

🌀 The Family WellthCare Commission Response Plan
This isn’t a white paper. It’s a grassroots blueprint for relational healing that starts in the home and ripples outward.

Because if we solve for the family, we solve for the world.

And if we don’t? We’ll keep cycling through symptom management while the root system continues to decay.

Final Reflection: From Control to Connection

I’ll end with this:
The real crisis isn’t that our children are sick.

The real crisis is that we keep trying to fix them without asking who and what we’ve become as a society.

We keep looking for external solutions to internal fragmentation.

But healing isn’t found in better packaging, tighter regulations, or more surveillance.

Healing begins at the dinner table. In bedtime stories. In apologies whispered after slammed doors. In family mission statements. In emotional fluency.

It begins when we choose connection over correction.

Let’s stop asking “What’s wrong with our kids?”

And start asking, “What’s unresolved in our relationships?”

If this speaks to you — if you’re a parent, a practitioner, or a policymaker ready for real change — let’s connect. I’m sharing the full Family WellthCare Commission Response Plan next week.
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Because America doesn’t get healthy until her families do.