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The Impact of Trauma: How Unresolved Pain Fuels Addiction in Families

10/14/2023

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How Confronting Trauma Can End Addiction’s Grip
Introduction
For families struggling with addiction, the road to recovery can often feel lonely and helpless. Many parents find themselves caught in a vicious cycle of blame, anger and despair as they watch their loved one succumb further and further into the grips of addiction. But what if, in order to break this cycle, we need to examine the underlying causes at its core?

Recent research has shown that in the vast majority of addiction cases, unresolved childhood trauma plays a significant role. The connection is clear: when pain goes unaddressed, it seeks resolution in destructive ways. For the addict, drugs and alcohol provide a temporary escape from deep emotional wounds. But in order to truly break free from addiction’s hold, the trauma must be brought into the light.

As a family addiction recovery coach with over 20 years of experience, I am committed to guiding parents toward wholeness, connection and freedom from the strongholds of trauma and addiction in their families. In this blog, I will explore the close link between childhood trauma and addiction, provide hope through proven methods of family therapy, and issue a call to parents to take courageous steps toward lasting healing.

The Link Between Childhood Trauma and Addiction
Studies show that upwards of 80% of those struggling with addiction have experienced some form of trauma in childhood. This trauma could include:
  • Physical, emotional or sexual abuse
  • Loss of a parent or close family member
  • Neglect or abandonment
  • Household dysfunction like violence or untreated mental illness

When a child experiences this kind of pain or instability at a young age, it can have profound effects on their physical, emotional and psychological development. Trauma literally changes brain chemistry, making individuals more susceptible to seeking out substances as a means of coping with pain.

The National Institute on Drug Abuse states that the lack of a stable, nurturing environment during childhood primes the brain to seek out chemical means of soothing itself. This leads those who have experienced trauma to be far more likely to develop issues of problematic use and the experience of addiction later in life.

Simply put: unresolved trauma can perpetuate the cycle of addiction. The painful memories, feelings of worthlessness, anxiety and depression that result from childhood trauma often become too heavy to bear. Drugs and alcohol provide a temporary escape, but also lead to their own form of pain. Let’s also not forget about coping behaviors like over-working, gambling, eating disorders, etc.

Healing the Whole Family: Proven Methods of Recovery
The good news is that the cycle can be broken. While addiction manifests itself physically in one individual, it impacts the entire family emotionally. Therefore, in order to achieve sustainable recovery, the family must heal as a unit.

Through my coaching practice, I have seen the incredible power of a family focused on uncovering and resolving core childhood trauma. Some proven methods include:
  • Family systems therapy — examining the emotional dynamics at play between family members that may enable or perpetuate dysfunction and addiction.
  • Creating a trauma narrative — the person experiencing addiction develops a cohesive narrative of their experiences of trauma, allowing them to process and release pain.
  • Inner child work — family members reconnect with and care for the hurting child within themselves in order to find wholeness.
  • Family education — learning about the nature of trauma, its link to addiction, and pathways toward healing together.
  • Addressing triggers and grief — identifying emotional triggers related to past trauma, and grieving pain in healthy ways as a family.

The aim of family therapy is to provide a safe space for each member to process trauma, rebuild trust, and reconnect. Past wounds begin to heal through the power of transparency, empathy, accountability, and unconditional love.

I have witnessed even the most broken families transformed by doing the hard work of resolving trauma together. Through this process, the desire to self-medicate begins to lift, and addiction’s grip loosens. Though challenging, the journey ultimately frees each person to live in wholeness, no longer chained to the pain of the past.

A Call to Hope and Healing
If your family has been impacted by addiction, I want to assure you that there is hope. While the road will not be easy, lasting freedom is possible for your loved one — and your entire family.

The first step is to acknowledge that addiction is often rooted in unresolved trauma, and be willing to courageously confront this trauma as a family. Though this may resurface pain, on the other side is wholeness.

You need not walk this road alone. As a family recovery coach, I am committed to guiding you through each stage of the healing process with compassion and empowerment. I will stand with you and equip you with the tools needed to break addiction’s stronghold for good.

Call to Action
Visit www.familyaddictionrecovery.net today to schedule your free 30-minute consultation. There is no shame in reaching out — you are taking the brave first step toward hope and healing.

Conclusion
You possess the strength to overcome. Allow me to support you as you reclaim life and freedom for your family.
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      • Transformational Recovery Fellowship
      • Psychedelics in Recovery
    • Stigma
    • Trauma >
      • Trauma Treatment
      • Signs of Unresolved Trauma
      • Gabor Mate on Trauma
    • Grief
    • AA
    • Understanding Bipolar Disorder
    • Shame
    • Anxiety
    • What is addiction?
    • Addiction, A Family Challenge
    • Self-Compassion
    • Mindfulness
    • Treatment Partners
    • Coaching vs. Therapy
    • A Checklist for Checking Out Rehabs
    • Neurofeedback
    • Mental Health Resources for Teens
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    • Enabling, Rescuing and Controlling
    • Identifying and Establishing Personal Boundaries
    • Shayne Anderson Interventions
  • Family Questionnaire
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